{"id":105203,"date":"2024-01-12T07:00:25","date_gmt":"2024-01-11T22:00:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/watv.org\/faith_life\/considerate-words\/"},"modified":"2024-01-09T13:40:15","modified_gmt":"2024-01-09T04:40:15","slug":"considerate-words","status":"publish","type":"faith_life","link":"https:\/\/watv.org\/vi\/faith_life\/considerate-words\/","title":{"rendered":"L\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u00e0 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i quan t\u00e2m"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure><picture><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/thum_considerate_words_01.jpg\"><\/picture><\/figure>\n<p>\u201cM\u00ecnh \u01a1i, c\u1ed1c c\u00e0 ph\u00ea n\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb9p qu\u00e1 ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng? H\u00f4m nay em \u0111\u00e3 mua v\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3m gi\u00e1 \u0111\u1ea5y.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEm c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau c\u1ed1c c\u00e0 ph\u00ea r\u1ed3i m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i mua n\u1eefa \u00e0? Anh ngh\u0129 em chi ti\u00eau qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e0 r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ea5y.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cC\u1ed1c c\u00e0 ph\u00ea c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i n\u00e0o c\u00f3 thi\u1ebft k\u1ebf nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y. C\u0169ng \u0111\u00e2u ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e2u, sao anh l\u1ea1i n\u00f3i v\u1eady?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cD\u00f9 \u0111\u1eaft hay kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eaft th\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd do g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 mua c\u1ea3, m\u00e0 em c\u1ee9 mua nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00ean m\u1edbi n\u00f3i.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cN\u1ebfu c\u00f3 ai nghe th\u1ea5y ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd t\u01b0\u1edfng em ti\u00eau x\u00e0i phung ph\u00ed chi ph\u00ed sinh ho\u1ea1t m\u1ea5t.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00dd anh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1eady&#8230;\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cTh\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i. Anh \u0111\u1eebng n\u00f3i n\u1eefa.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 \u0111ang n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c vun v\u00e9n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng mua \u0111\u1ed3 gi\u1ea3m gi\u00e1 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn. V\u1eady n\u00ean c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ea5t vui khi mua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ed1c c\u00e0 ph\u00ea m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n s\u1edf h\u1eefu nh\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3m gi\u00e1. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u0169ng th\u1ea7m ph\u1ea5n kh\u00edch khi ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c u\u1ed1ng tr\u00e0 c\u00f9ng ch\u1ed3ng b\u1eb1ng c\u1ed1c c\u00e0 ph\u00ea m\u1edbi. Tuy nhi\u00ean, khi ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd.<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd do \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. D\u00f9 u\u1ed1ng trong c\u1ed1c m\u1edbi th\u00ec h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb c\u00e0 ph\u00ea c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ngon h\u01a1n, \u1edf nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ed1c c\u00e0 ph\u00ea r\u1ed3i, th\u1ebf m\u00e0 v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i mua th\u00eam m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i n\u1eefa n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u n\u1ed5i. C\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 \u0111\u00e3 chi ti\u00eau m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n, ph\u1ea3i ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m sinh ho\u1ea1t ph\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 n\u1ee3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3ng ti\u1ec1n h\u1ecdc ph\u00ed cho c\u00e1c con. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 khuy\u00ean nh\u1ee7 v\u1ee3 v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kinh t\u1ebf gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd khi\u1ebfn v\u1ee3 bu\u1ed3n l\u00f2ng. V\u00ec cho r\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129 v\u1ee3 s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u00fd tr\u00ed. Tuy nhi\u00ean, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i cho nhau.<\/p>\n<h3>M\u1eadt ong c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eafng n\u1ebfu l\u00e0 thu\u1ed1c<\/h3>\n<p>Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang ta g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i sai tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u n\u1ed5i. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 g\u00ec v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng can d\u1ef1 m\u00e0 c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf cho qua; nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf cho qua m\u00e0 s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 ra v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean, ph\u1ea3i v\u1eady m\u1edbi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng. V\u00ec gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i y\u00eau d\u1ea5u v\u00e0 qu\u00fd tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n ai h\u1ebft, n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta cho r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i cho bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec sai, vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 v\u00ec gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n<figure><picture><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/thum_considerate_words_02.jpg\"><\/picture><\/figure>\n<p>Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p x\u1ea3y ra xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u00e0 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 l\u00ean ti\u1ebfng v\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u1ea1i n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn ho\u1eb7c h\u1eddn d\u1ed7i thay v\u00ec t\u1ecf th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 bi\u1ebft \u01a1n ho\u1eb7c s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn sai l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng b\u1ecb r\u1ea1n n\u1ee9t s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i c\u0169ng b\u1ecb c\u1eaft \u0111\u1ee9t. Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 h\u1ee3p l\u00fd h\u00f3a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y. \u201cT\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i g\u00ec sai sao?\u201d, \u201cN\u1ebfu t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i th\u00ec ai s\u1ebd n\u00f3i cho bi\u1ebft ch\u1ee9?\u201d, \u201cT\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 suy ngh\u0129 k\u1ef9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u00f3i r\u1ed3i m\u00e0\u201d, \u201cCh\u1ec9 v\u00ec l\u00f2ng d\u1ea1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 qu\u00e1 h\u1eb9p h\u00f2i\u201d&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>V\u1eady, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng vui l\u00f2ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1eb9p h\u00f2i ch\u0103ng? L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean nh\u1ee7 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m ho\u1eb7c sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u1ed1t th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh li\u1ec1u thu\u1ed1c tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. Song, nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef r\u1eb1ng \u201cM\u1eadt ong c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eafng n\u1ebfu l\u00e0 thu\u1ed1c\u201d, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n nghe l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean hay l\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch d\u00f9 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u00edch cho m\u00ecnh ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa. C\u00f3 khi ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean m\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n h\u1eefu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0y c\u00f4ng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u201cN\u1ebfu t\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec sai, xin \u0111\u1eebng ng\u1ea1i m\u00e0 h\u00e3y cho t\u00f4i l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean nh\u00e9!\u201d v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean, th\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m khi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 nghe l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean.<\/p>\n<p>Khi ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i ra v\u1edbi \u00fd t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i khi\u1ebfn t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00f3ng l\u1ea1i, th\u00ec v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u1eb1m \u1edf \u201cph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p\u201d. S\u1edf d\u0129 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean l\u00e0 v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec l\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u0111\u00fang hay sai. \u0110\u00f4i khi, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng ho\u1eb7c ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 c\u1ee9 \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ch\u00ea tr\u00e1ch v\u1edbi danh ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 khuy\u00ean nh\u1ee7. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi b\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi th\u1ed1t ra v\u00ec l\u1eddi kh\u00f3 nghe c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ho\u1eb7c l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u00f4ng k\u00edch v\u00ec b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n v\u00e0o c\u1ea3m x\u00fac kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh v\u00e0 khi\u1ec3n tr\u00e1ch nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n<h3>L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh<\/h3>\n<p>Ngay c\u1ea3 khi suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 sai, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3i th\u1eb3ng v\u1edbi h\u1ecd v\u1edbi gi\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec7u ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n. Khi \u1edf trong t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng vui, c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf ph\u00f2ng v\u1ec7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00edch ho\u1ea1t. V\u1eady n\u00ean d\u00f9 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00f3i l\u1eddi \u0111\u00fang ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i suy ngh\u0129 m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f2n t\u0103ng th\u00eam s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng n\u1eefa. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean hay ch\u1ec9 b\u1ea3o kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1eadn ra sai l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 m\u00ecnh chi\u1ebfm th\u1ebf th\u01b0\u1ee3ng phong b\u1edfi l\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111\u00fang, m\u00e0 nh\u1eb1m gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 x\u00e2y kh\u1ecfi h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111i sai tr\u00e1i m\u00e0 tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb mong mu\u1ed1n \u201ctr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n\u201d. N\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng khi s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng lo l\u1eafng cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00ec th\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i ra c\u00f2n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n<p>Ngay c\u1ea3 khi \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111i ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa, khuy\u00ean nh\u1ee7 v\u1eabn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m, d\u1ec5 g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, n\u00ean c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc k\u1ef9 c\u00e0ng h\u01a1n bao gi\u1edd h\u1ebft. Khi h\u1ecdc tr\u00f2 h\u1ecfi r\u1eb1ng \u201cN\u1ebfu gi\u1eefa anh em c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m th\u00ec c\u00f3 n\u00ean n\u00f3i cho nhau bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng?\u201d, Toegye Yi Hwang \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: \u201cTr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, h\u00e3y l\u1ea5y h\u1ebft th\u00e0nh \u00fd m\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed9ng. Ph\u1ea3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec sau n\u00e0y m\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh ngh\u0129a \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean. N\u1ebfu ch\u1ec9 tr\u00e1ch m\u1eafng ngay l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh \u00fd th\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean xa c\u00e1ch\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a Toegye, n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i suy ngh\u0129 xem li\u1ec7u m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u0111ang quan t\u00e2m b\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng \u1ea5m \u00e1p, \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh hay kh\u00f4ng. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng xem s\u1ebd n\u00f3i th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u00e0 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n ri\u00eang v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng sau khi t\u1ea1o b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. Vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i th\u1eb3ng ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea5m k\u1ef5. Ph\u1ea7n k\u1ebft th\u00fac nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3i mang t\u00ednh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 hy v\u1ecdng. L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean \u0111\u00fang th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 thu\u1ed1c, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh thu\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9c n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c. Vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean, nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean \u1ea5y l\u00e0 b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i h\u1eddn d\u1ed7i ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00ec c\u1edb \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n ngoan n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb th\u00f9. Ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9. Th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean (\u5fe0\u544a) theo H\u00e1n t\u1ef1 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u201ckhuy\u00ean r\u0103n (\u544a) m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch trung t\u00edn (\u5fe0)\u201d, v\u00e0 trong k\u00fd t\u1ef1 \u201ctrung t\u00edn (\u5fe0)\u201d c\u0169ng bao g\u1ed3m \u00fd ngh\u0129a \u201cb\u1eb1ng h\u1ebft t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng th\u00e0nh\u201d. L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh. V\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f3 n\u00ean b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n<h3>S\u1ef1 khuy\u00ean nh\u1ee7 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean<\/h3>\n<p>Kh\u1ed5ng T\u1eed t\u1eebng n\u00f3i \u201cN\u1ebfu th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean khuy\u00ean can trong khi h\u1ea7u vi\u1ec7c vua th\u00ec s\u1ebd b\u1ecb la r\u1ea7y, c\u00f2n n\u1ebfu th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean khuy\u00ean r\u0103n khi k\u1ebft th\u00e2n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 th\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean xa c\u00e1ch\u201d. Ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh n\u00f3i ra v\u00ec suy ngh\u0129 cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u0169ng s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh l\u1eddi m\u1eafng nhi\u1ebfc n\u1ebfu l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i. Ph\u1ea3i th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh khuy\u00ean nh\u1ee7, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh xem c\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean hay kh\u00f4ng. Ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean suy ngh\u0129 xem li\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean hay kh\u00f4ng, li\u1ec7u m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng hay kh\u00f4ng, v\u00e0 d\u00f9 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch \u0111i ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa th\u00ec li\u1ec7u m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m hay kh\u00f4ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n cho l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1eeb quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2nb\u1ea1n th\u00f4i, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt.<\/p>\n<p>Vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i l\u1eddi \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft c\u0169ng quan tr\u1ecdng, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 v\u1ed7 v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u1ea5m \u00e1p. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u khi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0m sai v\u00e0 g\u00e2y ra l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m. Tuy nhi\u00ean, t\u1eeb l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00ec c\u00f3 l\u00fd do ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng cho l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. B\u1edfi v\u00ec tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c nhau, n\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u th\u00edch ng\u01b0\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi khuy\u00ean r\u0103n v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch. N\u1ebfu khuy\u00ean r\u0103n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u1ee5ng v\u1ec1 trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u h\u1ebft v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, ho\u1eb7c mu\u1ed1n d\u1ecbch chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh, th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 chu\u1ed1c l\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n c\u1ea3m m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Cho d\u00f9 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 gi\u00e3i b\u00e0y n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5 t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111i ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa, th\u00ec t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n h\u1ebft n\u00ean l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 thay v\u00ec khuy\u00ean r\u0103n hay ch\u1ec9 d\u1ea1y h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n<figure><picture><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/thum_considerate_words_03.jpg\"><\/picture><\/figure>\n<p>Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y khen ng\u1ee3i nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea7n m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n \u0111ang l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t, l\u1eb7ng l\u1ebd quan s\u00e1t c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 h\u1ecd h\u01a1n l\u00e0 khuy\u00ean r\u0103n v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd l\u00e0m sai. Trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng \u1edf ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u, n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng th\u1ea5y c\u1ed1c c\u00e0 ph\u00ea m\u1edbi mua v\u00e0 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u201cEm qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt c\u00f3 m\u1eaft nh\u00ecn\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cC\u00e0 ph\u00ea em pha d\u00f9 u\u1ed1ng \u1edf c\u1ed1c n\u00e0o c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y ngon\u201d, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00e1c r\u1ed3i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng mong mu\u1ed1n v\u1ee3 ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m sinh ho\u1ea1t ph\u00ed m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, th\u00ec d\u00f9 v\u1ec1 sau n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0o d\u1ecbp th\u00edch h\u1ee3p c\u0169ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed9n.<\/p>\n<p>Khi \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh tr\u00ean l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00ec c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ra, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n 100% nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd tin l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t v\u00e0 h\u1ee3p l\u00fd \u0111\u00e2u. T\u00f9y theo t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng, nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ec7n minh cho m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01b0a ra nhi\u1ec1u c\u0103n c\u1ee9 v\u00e0 l\u00fd do n\u00e0y n\u1ecd ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u00e1i v\u1edbi l\u00fd tr\u00ed. Tr\u1edb tr\u00eau thay, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec3m thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec3m thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c r\u1ea5t r\u00f5.<\/p>\n<p>L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i l\u1eddi \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111i n\u1eefa, nh\u01b0ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u1ea1i kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi l\u1eddi n\u00f3i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd n\u00e0o l\u00e0m theo \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ch\u00ednh h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 ngay th\u1eb3ng t\u1ea1o \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebfn h\u00f3a.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cV\u0169 V\u1ea5n Thi\u1ec7n Ng\u00f4n T\u1ee9c B\u00e1i (\u79b9\u805e\u5584\u8a00\u5247\u62dc)\u201d l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u1ed5 k\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 V\u0169 v\u01b0\u01a1ng (\u79b9\u738b), vua c\u1ee7a n\u01b0\u1edbc H\u1ea1 (\u590f) \u1edf Trung Qu\u1ed1c. Khi h\u1ea1 th\u1ea7n t\u00e2u l\u00ean l\u1eddi t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y l\u00e0m gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n th\u00ec V\u0169 v\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00fai l\u1ea1y \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1 l\u1ec5 v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n<p>Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, d\u00f9 mu\u1ed1n hay kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 b\u1ea3o t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n l\u1eafng nghe m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch vui m\u1eebng nh\u01b0 V\u0169 v\u01b0\u01a1ng khi c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean. D\u00f9 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u00f2n v\u1ee5ng v\u1ec1, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd cho ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a nh\u1eadn ra th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e1ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n. Vi\u1ec7c nghe l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean tuy kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu nh\u01b0ng mang l\u1ea1i c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen sai tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<p>Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u0169ng kh\u00f3, m\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u0169ng kh\u00f3. C\u1ea3 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 khi t\u1ef1 h\u1ea1 m\u00ecnh xu\u1ed1ng. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta ghi kh\u1eafc s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt n\u00e0y, th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eadn l\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh tr\u00e2n qu\u00fd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t hay sao?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"\u201cM\u00ecnh \u01a1i, c\u1ed1c c\u00e0 ph\u00ea n\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb9p qu\u00e1 ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng? H\u00f4m nay em \u0111\u00e3 mua v\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3m gi\u00e1 \u0111\u1ea5y.\u201d \u201cEm c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau c\u1ed1c c\u00e0 ph\u00ea r\u1ed3i m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i mua n\u1eefa \u00e0? 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