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<\/picture><\/figure>\n\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c d\u01b0\u1ee1ng d\u1ee5c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 con m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 con v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n m\u00e0 nh\u1ea7m t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Vi\u1ec7c cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i v\u1edbi con v\u00e0 d\u00e0nh t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd hy sinh m\u1ea1ng s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 l\u1ebd t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu \u0111i qu\u00e1 xa th\u00ec v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 s\u1ebd n\u1ea3y sinh. V\u00ec gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e2y tr\u1ed3ng trong nh\u00e0 k\u00ednh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u01b0a gi\u00f3 kh\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7t, s\u1ef1 bao b\u1ecdc qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf n\u00ean y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 chu\u1ed9t t\u00fai (nh\u1eefng thanh ni\u00ean ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh v\u00e0o cha m\u1eb9 ngay c\u1ea3 khi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee7 l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp) hay con trai c\u01b0ng c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 (mama’s boy).<\/p>\n
Bao b\u1ecdc qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c<\/h3>\n
Trong th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 sinh th\u1ea5p, do ch\u1ec9 sinh t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ebfn hai con n\u00ean con c\u00e1i qu\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 l\u00e1 ng\u1ecdc c\u00e0nh v\u00e0ng. S\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ed5 d\u1ed3n v\u00e0o con c\u00e1i. Hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng bao b\u1ecdc qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng l\u1ed9 r\u00f5 do c\u01a1n s\u1ed1t gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u1ea3m \u0111\u1ea1m, nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 v\u00e0 tai n\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m li\u00ean ti\u1ebfp x\u1ea3y ra, th\u00eam v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n con c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong ngh\u00e8o kh\u00f3 v\u00e0 b\u1ecb \u00e1p b\u1ee9c gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
C\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ph\u1ee5 huynh g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n cho gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean ch\u1ee7 nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a con y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng b\u00e0n v\u00ec con kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch, hay h\u00e0nh hung th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 v\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng v\u1edbi con m\u00ecnh. \u1ede qu\u1ed1c gia kh\u00e1c, c\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1eed b\u1ea3o m\u1eabu \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1edbi xe c\u1eafm tr\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1ea5u b\u1eefa tr\u01b0a h\u1ee3p kh\u1ea9u v\u1ecb cho con.<\/p>\n
Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 khi con c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00f2n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3a h\u1ecdc m\u00e0 con h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tham gia \u1edf \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, c\u00f3 khi l\u1ea1i g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u01a1n v\u1ecb n\u01a1i con m\u00ecnh nh\u1eadp ng\u0169 v\u00e0 ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f3a \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o qu\u00e1 kh\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7t. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 ph\u1ee5 huynh y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u00f4ng ty thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn v\u00ec con c\u00e1i g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. Gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c nh\u00e2n s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty \u0111\u00e3 to\u00e1t m\u1ed3 h\u00f4i h\u1ed9t khi m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u1ee9ng vi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua v\u00f2ng ki\u1ec3m tra h\u1ed3 s\u01a1 xin vi\u1ec7c g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00e0 ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n \u201cAnh ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch t\u1ea1i sao con t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1ee3t trong khi n\u00f3 c\u00f3 s\u01a1 y\u1ebfu l\u00fd l\u1ecbch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t\u201d.<\/p>\n
Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng g\u00ec cho cha m\u1eb9 khi ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn con m\u00ecnh v\u1eadt l\u1ed9n v\u00e0 ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng mong mu\u1ed1n cho con m\u00ecnh \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n. Th\u00eam n\u1eefa, r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ranh gi\u1edbi gi\u1eefa s\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 bao b\u1ecdc qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u. T\u1eeb \u0111i\u1ec3n ph\u00fac l\u1ee3i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a bao b\u1ecdc qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c l\u00e0 \u201cxu h\u01b0\u1edbng cha m\u1eb9 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 con c\u00e1i qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c nh\u1eb1m tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho l\u00e0 c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e2m l\u00fd ho\u1eb7c th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t\u201d, tuy nhi\u00ean vi\u1ec7c x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0o l\u00e0 \u201ct\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e2m l\u00fd ho\u1eb7c th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t\u201d v\u00e0 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00e0o l\u00e0 \u201cqu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c\u201d th\u00ec l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. Quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 cha m\u1eb9. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh ph\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean suy ngh\u0129 xem h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00ec con v\u00e0 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n
Bao b\u1ecdc qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c g\u00e2y c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf cho con c\u00e1i<\/h3>\n
Nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 Wendy Grolnick trong m\u1ed9t th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ec3 xem t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i, \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 con 12 th\u00e1ng tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0a cho con m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i v\u00e0 \u201c\u1edf l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi con trong khi con ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i\u201d. Sau \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c can thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c ch\u01a1i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch ch\u1ec9 cho tr\u1ebb c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i, c\u00f2n m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c ch\u1ec9 quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 khi tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n Ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 b\u1ecb t\u00e1ch kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, r\u1ed3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i m\u1edbi cho ch\u00fang, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb m\u1eb9 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t kh\u00f4ng duy tr\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e2u v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t d\u1ea7n h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa, trong khi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eb9 cho t\u1ef1 do \u0111\u00e3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i. Grolnick \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t v\u00e0 can thi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c b\u1ea9m sinh c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n Trong t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee5 huynh b\u1ea3o b\u1ecdc con c\u00e1i qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u1eafc s\u00e2u suy ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u201cCon c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e2u\u201d hay \u201cM\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh con s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c\u201d. V\u00ec th\u1ea5y con c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady, n\u00ean h\u1ecd b\u1ea5t an v\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng nhi\u1ec1u. Tuy nhi\u00ean, vi\u1ec7c cha m\u1eb9 can thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ea3 khi tr\u1ebb y\u00eau c\u1ea7u gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nh\u1eb1m ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng ph\u1ea3i lo l\u1eafng, b\u1ea5t an v\u00ec tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n l\u00f3ng ng\u00f3ng, kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec vi\u1ec7c g\u1eedi \u0111i th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p r\u1eb1ng \u201cCon kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e2u\u201d.<\/p>\n Theo \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn l\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi s\u1ef1 bao b\u1ecdc qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0o ch\u1ee7 quan c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, n\u00ean kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh k\u00e9m, tinh th\u1ea7n th\u00ec nhu nh\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f2n th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t c\u0169ng y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i n\u00ean r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c khi g\u1eb7p t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. Sau n\u00e0y, c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ed1i nh\u00e2n x\u1eed th\u1ebf v\u00e0 sinh ho\u1ea1t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, ch\u00fang c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 coi vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean.<\/p>\n M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 cha m\u1eb9 h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a con m\u00ecnh, nh\u1ea7m t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ec1n ch\u1eb7t. M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh c\u1ea3nh b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh do ph\u1ea3i c\u00f2ng l\u01b0ng ch\u0103m s\u00f3c nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con nh\u01b0 chu\u1ed9t t\u00fai khi v\u1ec1 gi\u00e0, qu\u00fd v\u1ecb c\u1ea7n h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf bao b\u1ecdc qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f9ng, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ean cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. Cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u1ecdn h\u1ea3i \u0111\u0103ng soi \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 hoa ti\u00eau n\u1eafm gi\u1eef ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i. Ng\u1ecdn h\u1ea3i \u0111\u0103ng \u0111\u01b0a ra ph\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn cho t\u00e0u thuy\u1ec1n qua l\u1ea1i an to\u00e0n, nh\u01b0ng nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a con t\u00e0u l\u00e0 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua s\u00f3ng to gi\u00f3 l\u1edbn.<\/p>\n Tr\u00ean h\u1ebft, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp cho con c\u00e1i. N\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n con t\u1ef1 t\u1eafm r\u1eeda, cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 l\u1ed9n x\u1ed9n trong ph\u00f2ng t\u1eafm, khi d\u1ea1y con l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 ho\u1eb7c t\u1ef1 d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p th\u00ec s\u1ef1 v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa. Khi con \u0111ang l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1eebng th\u00fac gi\u1ee5c hay can thi\u1ec7p b\u1edfi l\u1eddi \u201cNhanh l\u00ean\u201d, \u201cL\u00e0m cho \u0111\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201c\u0110\u1ec3 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m cho\u201d, d\u00f9 ch\u00fang ch\u1eadm ch\u1ea1p v\u00e0 v\u1ee5ng v\u1ec1, nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i.<\/p>\n Thay v\u00ec lo l\u1eafng \u201cNh\u1ee1 con l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t th\u00ec sao?\u201d th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n l\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n l\u00f2ng tin r\u1eb1ng con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t. Khi con c\u00e1i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng cha m\u1eb9 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu con m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i hay b\u1ecb \u0111au, cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t bu\u1ed3n v\u00e0 \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m qu\u00fd b\u00e1u cho con. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eb9 b\u1ebf l\u00ean m\u1ed7i khi b\u1ecb ng\u00e3, c\u1ea7m t\u00fai cho v\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb n\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f5ng tr\u00ean l\u01b0ng khi n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb \u0111au ch\u00e2n, th\u00ec \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng khi l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. H\u00e3y kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 khi con g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfc l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i khi con l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 cha m\u1eb9 b\u1ecf qua k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt m\u00e0 h\u1ecd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n b\u1edfi vi\u1ec7c bao b\u1ecdc con c\u00e1i. Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 b\u1eadn b\u1ecbu b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 con khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf t\u1ea7ng d\u01b0\u1edbi ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh ti\u1ebfng \u1ed3n do con g\u00e2y ra, bao che ng\u1ea7m khi th\u1ea5y con l\u00e0m \u1ea7m \u0129 n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng c\u1ed9ng, kh\u00f4ng suy ngh\u0129 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nghi\u00eam t\u00fac khi con b\u1eaft n\u1ea1t b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u00f2n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n l\u00e0 con h\u1ecd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n, l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng gieo r\u1eafc t\u00ednh \u00edch k\u1ef7 ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 cho con nh\u01b0ng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c v\u00e0 quy t\u1eafc.<\/p>\n Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 chim \u0111\u1ea1i b\u00e0ng n\u00e0o gi\u1eef con non trong t\u1ed5 v\u00ec ch\u00fang qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau, hay v\u00ec lo l\u1eafng chim non c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb ng\u00e3 v\u00e0 b\u1ecb th\u01b0\u01a1ng khi bay. D\u00f9 chim non lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, ch\u00fang ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch bay \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u0103n m\u1ed3i v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng ni\u1ec1m vui \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bay tr\u00ean b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi. Do \u0111\u00f3 khi \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m, \u0111\u1ea1i b\u00e0ng m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 c\u01b0\u01a1ng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ea9y chim con ra kh\u1ecfi t\u1ed5 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00e0n nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 b\u1eaft ch\u00fang h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch bay.<\/p>\n \u0110\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt d\u00f9 c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh m\u1eabu t\u1eed s\u00e2u \u0111\u1eadm \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed hy sinh v\u00ec con \u0111i ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng con c\u00e1i th\u00e0nh t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i y\u1ebfu \u1edbt kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u1ef1 lo cho m\u00ecnh. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi r\u1eb1ng \u201cQu\u00fd tr\u1ecdng con th\u00ec h\u00e3y g\u1eedi \u0111i xa x\u1ee9\u201d, mu\u1ed1n con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed1t th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch m\u1ec1m m\u1ecfng m\u00e0 h\u00e3y r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n cho con l\u1edbn l\u00ean m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd b\u1edfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m nh\u1eefng gian kh\u1ed5 tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian. R\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, c\u1ea3 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i s\u1ebd tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi con \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady, bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e1p c\u00f4ng \u01a1n cha m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Sau khi th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5 qu\u00e2n s\u1ef1, m\u1ed9t thanh ni\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn trung t\u00e2m t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n t\u00e2m l\u00fd. Cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0a anh ta \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c nh\u00ecn con ng\u1ee7 v\u00e0o ban ng\u00e0y v\u00e0 say m\u00ea tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed v\u00e0o ban \u0111\u00eam. 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