One winter day, a group of hedgehogs huddled together to stay warm. But as they drew near, their sharp quills pricked one another, causing pain. After a few painful attempts, they discovered the perfect distance—close enough to share warmth, yet far enough to avoid hurting each other.
This story, known as the Hedgehog’s Dilemma, offers a wise lesson for family life. The closer we are, the easier it is to hurt each other without meaning to. But when we love with respect and care, our homes grow more peaceful. This month, try the hedgehog’s way of loving—keeping just enough space for warmth to grow; close, yet always respectful. Within that space, your family will feel gently connected and warmly held.
- Tip
- Use kind words instead of sharp ones.
- Watch patiently instead of nagging.
- Respect each other’s choices.
- Compliment strengths without making comparisons.
- Share your thoughts without pushing them.
- Show interest without interfering.