There is a mother who raised six children, all of whom were accepted into prestigious universities in the United States. Along with her husband and two sons, she herself was also named one of the “100 Most Influential Korean Americans of the Past 100 Years.” This mother had a unique philosophy when it came to education: She believed that not only her own children, but also others’ children, needed to be raised well in order for everyone to grow up properly.
That’s why she told her kids not to study alone, but to invite their friends over to study together. Even though their home was small, she brought in 18 desks so they could all learn in one space. She also taught her children that in order to truly help others, they had to become excellent in whatever field they pursued. With this mindset, her children were motivated to study hard on their own.
She says the reason she’s proud of her children isn’t because they got into top schools or held high-ranking positions. It’s because they grew up to be people who think of others before themselves and consider how to live in harmony with those around them.
Her influence clearly played a major role in shaping who her children became. In a world often dominated by ruthless competition and self-centeredness, this mother’s story is a powerful reminder that true success is found in growing together with others—not just alone.