Faith & Life

When There Is a Drought

Two workers went up to the mountain and cut a tree down. When the tree was cut, they saw growth rings on the wood. Then the younger worker said, “Look! These five rings are close to each other. It seems there was a drought for five years.” The young worker knew that the rings get close to each other when there is a drought because the tree grows slowly. Then the old worker who was listening to him silently said to him, “You’re right, but there is something more important. When there is a drought, trees send their roots down deeper to seek water and nutrients from the soil. Then their roots become stronger, and after the drought, the trees…

Give the Thumbs-Up: “My Family Is the Best!”

Praise can make even a whale dance. Praise makes the listener feel better and lift up those who are in despair. Praise is another food people eat. “Good!” “Excellent!” “You are the best!” If you raise your thumbs with the words of praise, the effect doubles. Sometimes, a powerful gesture of thumbs-up makes the other person more pleased than many words. Dale Carnegie said, “There is nothing more touching and moving than praise. We may soon forget how we praised someone else, but the person who was praised may keep it in his heart all his life.” This month, praise your family generously with your thumbs up. The listeners can feel energy surging up when they are exhausted, and happiness…

Promise

This is the definition of “promise.” However, since no one knows what will happen to them tomorrow, though they make a solemn oath, they often break it unintentionally due to unexpected circumstances. And if it is impossible to reach the condition of the promise, one side breaks it without reserve. “God is not a man, that he should lie, nor a son of man, that he should change his mind. Does he speak and then not act? Does he promise and not fulfill?” Nu 23:19 God’s promise is fulfilled without fail. Though you may think it lingers, there is a reason. God waits for the other side who has not made himself or herself ready yet, so that he or…

The World Is Short-Tempered: Let’s Correct It at My Home First!

Nowadays, people become more and more impatient, being unable to control their anger. A driver, who was driving on a highway, got angry as another driver changed the lane, and stopped his car suddenly; the car behind him was able to stop before he hit the car, but five cars behind him collided with each other and as a result, one innocent driver died, and four people were seriously injured. Two people died as a man got angry because of the noise between the floors of his apartment and set fire downstairs. A son murdered his parents who were disciplining him. An office worker murdered his colleague whom he argued with. Such incidents caused by the inability to control their…

Scarcity Error

Such advertising terms as “Limited Offer Today Only,” “The First Hundred People Receive,” or “Only While Stocks Last!” are a strategy to promote consumer confidence. The fact that there’s limited time to purchase assigns scarcity, and people think getting rare things is special. If scarcity is used as a sales tool, errors may occur. To a customer who is hesitating to choose his clothes, if the shop clerk says, “Another customer has looked at it and liked it a lot. What about you?” the customer is likely to purchase it. But actually the value of the clothes has nothing to do with the previous customer. Rolf Dobelli, the author of The Art of Thinking Clearly, says, “The typical response to…

If We Deliver the Love of Mother

A special event was held in Dhaka, the capital of Bangladesh. More than a hundred members from the Church of God gathered to clean up street for the first time. They divided teams; the male adults gathered the trash with big brooms, and the young adults, the students, and the female adults followed the male adults by picking up the trash into the trash bags. Under the scorching sunlight and the wind mixed with sand and dust, the five-hundred-meter-long street became clean by the hands of the members who did not forget to lose their smiles all the time throughout the day. It is rare to see a church activity in Bangladesh because there are not many Christians. But on…

Jo Su-bin from Incheon, South Korea

The Role of One Person

A few years ago, an unprecedented incident occurred at a marathon held in the U.K. About 5,000 runners were all disqualified except only one person. The story goes as follows. The first-placed runner was quite away from the second-placed runner. Then, the second-placed runner took the wrong direction. This resulted in making all those who followed take an incorrect route and end up running 264 meters short of 42.195 kilometers. Eventually, only the lead athlete completed the correct course and became the winner, and the other runners were all disqualified though they crossed the finish line, which was not so funny. Through this happening, we can realize once again how important the role of one person is. We too can…

Once You Start

Do you happen to know Writer’s Block? It is a condition where an author cannot start a new work because of the fear that he might not create a great one. The best way to break down this barrier is to start writing a sentence. When you put off things that you want to do or that you have to do, you say it’s hardly even thinkable. To speak more precisely, it’s not that you’re unable to start because it’s hardly thinkable, but it’s more like you don’t get motivated because you haven’t started yet. According to Work Excitement Theory reported by Emil Kraepelin, a psychiatrist, once you start doing something, a certain part of the brain become excited and…

Probability of Success

Picasso, the best painter in the 20th century, drew about 20,000 paintings, and Einstein, the world-famous physicist, wrote about 240 theses. Bach, a German composer and musician, composed a choir song every week, and Mozart composed more than 600 works. The Inventor Edison applied for a patent 1,039 times. Kim Yu-na the Queen of Figure-skating fell on her backside more than 3,000 times to learn one jumping skill. A survey by a professional consultant of creativity shows that first-class poets have written more poor poems than second-class poets. Since the first-class poets write more poems, they have more poor poems as well. Dean Keith Simonton, a professor of University of California, stated in his book, Origins of Genius, as follows:…

Return to God

When I was young, I worked out in the sea for a few years. Whenever I was out in the sea far from the land, I felt like I was growing away from God. Strictly speaking, I’d already grown away from God because I, once a fervent Protestant churchgoer, had stopped going to church; I didn’t really know what true acts of faith were. However, I hadn’t forsaken my faith; I always had a thought at the edges of my mind that I would return to God some day. To put my resolution into action, I quit my job in the sea and started an ordinary job on land. However, I couldn’t adapt myself to my life on land and…

Chu Myeong-guk from Changwon, South Korea

“What Is Love?”

“When you tell your friend you like his shirt, then he wears it every day.” “During my piano recital, I felt scared on a stage. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared anymore.” “Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.” “Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.” “When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis, too.” “When you love somebody,…

True Filial Duty Starts from Understanding

Whenever I read a Bible verse, “Anyone who does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me” (Mk 8:34), I was reminded of my family. My father, who received a pastoral education in a Protestant church in his youth, opposed my faith when I said I attended the Church of God. Even my mom, who wasn’t interested in religion, stood on my father’s side; an invisible wall was built between my parents and me. When I was about to get married, there was a change. To prepare for the wedding, I had to talk with my parents frequently. While conversing with them, I realized that I had mistaken my parents; I felt through their words how…

Lee Si-won from Incheon, South Korea

In Order to Save My Brother

In April, 2013, a primary school girl and a boy, who are siblings, were on their way home from a study room in Seoul, Korea. They saw some children jumping up and down on the plate of a flood pumping station near a playground. Then, the boy too began to jump on the same spot after all others left. Seeing him doing that, his older sister came near to him to take him out of there. Suddenly the plate tilted and both of them fell into the pumping station which was eight meters (26 ft) high. The depth of water in it was 130 centimeters (4.3 ft). Fortunately, the girl was 153 centimeters (5 ft) all that she could breathe…

A Note That Changed a Thief’s Mind

Eileen was a visiting nurse in a small resort city in the U.K. She rode a bike whenever she visited patients. One day, when she came out of a patient’s home after counseling and treatment, the bike vanished. As she had to visit more patients and it was a gift from her friend, she was very angry. But soon, she calmed herself and wrote a note and stuck it to the wall. “Please return my bike. It is old but loved, and will be frightened without its owner.” The next day, she went to the place where she lost her bike with little expectation. There she wore a smile of joy. The bike was fastened to a lamp post with…

Even with a Little Act

The International University Student Bible Academy [IUBA] is an education program of the Church of God, through which college students go abroad and enlarge their experience during their school break. I, too, joyfully volunteered for it, wanting to have a meaningful school break. I went to Jakarta in Indonesia. Among many activities I did there, I cannot forget our voluntary work at an orphanage. From a week before we visited the children, we thought over and over the way to give the children a precious memory. The guide told us that the kids would be greatly interested just for the fact that we are from Korea, so we prepared traditional Korean games such as Jegichagi [Korean hacky sack] and Ddakjichigi…

Lee Jeong-yeon from Bucheon, South Korea

What the Brain Does Not Know

Our body moves as the brain orders. If the brain loses its function, other parts of the body cannot play their roles properly, so the brain is the most important part of the body. The brain receives a great quantity of blood, which is fuel for the body, because it performs that much important function. However, the brain has a weak point. When you say something, your brain does not know whom your words refer to. If you say negative words to others, the brain does not know if the words are applied to yourself or to someone else, so it orders to release stress-producing hormones. On the contrary, if you say positive words to others, the brain recognizes that…

The Worry That I Had for Nineteen Years Has Turned to Joy I Cannot Contain

“ . . . You will grieve, but your grief will turn to joy. A woman giving birth to a child has pain because her time has come; but when her baby is born she forgets the anguish because of her joy that a child is born into the world.” Jn 16:20–21 “Grief turns to joy,” “The pain of giving birth to a child is tremendous but when the baby is born, she forgets the anguish because of her joy.” These are the verses that I liked and read often. I experienced the power of these words through my mother who was born again as a child of God Elohim nineteen years after she first heard about the truth. Mom…

Seo Mi-gyeong from Seoul, South Korea

That’s Not Me!

“That’s not me!” You might have reassured yourself with this thought at some point in your life. While watching TV or browsing the Internet, you may have thought that lewd or violent content may adversely affect others, but not yourself. This is called the “Third-Person Effect.” This perception stems from an arrogant mindset that you have more self-control than others. On the contrary, the “First-Person Effect” is when you think that positive mass media messages have a greater impact on you, compared with others. You do not think that others will be able to understand the message as well as you do. The thought, “That’s not me,” leads to over-confidence and puts our souls in spiritual danger.

Time to Reap Wheat

I work at the office of a construction site, where there is a laboratory to measure the solidity of cement. Earlier this year, we had a new director who is in charge of the lab. From the first day, I noticed that the new director was different from others. Although an employee from a cleaning company comes to clean our office, but he himself cleans the lab of 1,500 square feet by himself, worrying that it’s hard for the employee to clean two floors alone. Even though he can give instructions to his subordinates, he is humble to them and kind to clients. I truly wanted to deliver the word of God to the director. When I started to talk…

Ham Hye-jeong from Goyang, South Korea

The Power of Words

“Be careful with your words. Once they are spoken, they can be only forgiven, not forgotten.” “The tongue has no bones, but it’s strong enough to break a heart.” There are many quotes concerning the way we use our words. Most of them warn you to be careful of what you say because once you spit out your words before tasting them, you may get in trouble. Speaking too comfortably or jokingly may bring about irreversible negative results to your relationships. The power of words is greater than any weapon in the world; the slightest word can bring about a snowball effect. We all stumble in many ways. If anyone is never at fault in what he says, he is…